What is a top expert:

1. Do not pity anyone, do not trust anyone, do not deeply associate with anyone, do not complain to anyone, can hide your weaknesses, stay calm, do not boast, do not be arrogant, think carefully, be confused over trivial matters, be decisive in major matters. See through things but do not expose them, have a peaceful and calm heart, come and go alone, do not need to be flattered or fawned upon.
2. True sense of security comes from having money in your pocket. Others respect you not because you are friendly, but because you are strong. Fools are emotional; experts are利益化.
3. Reject ineffective social interactions; associating with poor or lower-tier people is ineffective socializing.
4. Any relationship, in the end, is just a meeting of acquaintances. Those with intentions will inevitably be burdened; those without intentions, it doesn't matter. Feelings are voluntary; do not talk about owed favors.
5. Do not have any expectations of anyone, including parents, spouses, siblings, or children. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Without expectations, there is no disappointment.
6. Strengthening yourself is the ultimate solution to all problems. The reason you get sick is because your physique is not strong enough; the reason you are poor is because your thinking is not strong enough.
7. People who do not do well are usually childish in mind, lacking cultivated thinking, process thinking, time thinking, and long-term thinking. Therefore, they tend to be anxious, pessimistic, desperate, extreme, and easily exploited. When others say a project can make quick money, they tend to believe it.
8. Maintain emotional stability often, not be affected by bad people or bad things. The strong are calm as water; the weak are irritable and quick to anger.
9. All resources in the world are yours. You can use all the resources in the world. Everything that is not yours can be used for you. Understand this sentence, and you will be unstoppable.
10. If it does not involve your own interests, do not refute others; let them speak and perform.
11. If you can remain calm despite having issues in your heart, that is a broad mind. If you have issues but pretend to be indifferent, that is experience. The most foolish behavior in the world is to argue with others.
12. Do not sympathize with your family and relatives; always pretend to be poor in front of them to maintain their vanity.
13. Offend a few people, make a few mistakes; it’s not that terrible. Living a life of constant compromise and fear is the most frightening.