There's a harsh reality: women are attracted to men who are wealthy, not men who spend lavishly on them.

Cai Lan once said, "When people know I have over a billion in my account, in order to catch this big fish, they not only don't want my money, but will even spend money on me instead. But if my card only has a few tens of thousands total today, even if I give her all of it at once to spend, after enjoying it, she'll only say to me: I'm sorry, you're a good person. That's the difference between spending money and being wealthy—it's cruel, but it's the truth."

Look at Dalian's Young Master Wang from Wanda taking beautiful women to eat at roadside stalls—isn't that stingy? Yet he manages to date one beautiful woman after another.

Liu from Suqian had his fiancée sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage, yet he still married a pure and elegant Tsinghua beauty.

Hong Kong's King of Song Guo, when he got married, wore a 300,000 yuan custom suit himself while giving his wife a 20,000 yuan dress—isn't that ridiculous? Yet his wife is willing to have children for him one after another.

Some might say this means women are materialistic, not that they're superficial, but love might just be admiration for the strong rather than being moved by the weak.

So work hard to make money, young brothers.